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Men, what do you find more attractive on a woman?  

sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/17/2015 9:53 am

    Quoting Greenstorm1993:
    Of course both are important but I noticed in your question that you put in parenthesis (in the beginning). In that case I would definitely choose the physical attributes as that is what I initially notice first. Personality takes time to find out which comes after talking to someone for a while. People usually choose what imitates their own values and because I am into physical fitness and looking good myself, I value that highly in a woman as that reflects my what I highly value for myself. The physical attributes are important for first impressions which plays a large role in me even wanting to get to know someone in the first place. So long as she at least looks healthy at the outset, she has passed the first impression test for which I will now be willing to put the time in to find out her personality. Of course, I am young male and these values may change over time but for now looks are very important to me.
I'm big on wanting someone to match me as well --- although, I could use someone more into fitness to get my ass in the gym more.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/17/2015 10:01 am

    Quoting  :

I'm never attracted to pursue someone by looks, it takes more to get me to pursue or want them. I notice them being attractive but keep moving on -- until something else catches my attention and gets me to follow and look into them more.


nitro_n_gyro 44M/46F
11 posts
6/17/2015 5:49 pm

most of the people I have been attracted too .. it's been the personaility and interests that have pegged my interest first ...

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imjustme269 51M
1 post
6/19/2015 8:12 am

I like/prefer a combination of both. She could be drop dead hot but no personality or even a hint of one or she is just a flat out mad angry or negative person and it destroys her appearance.


luvs2getsukdoff2 59M  
77 posts
6/19/2015 2:31 pm

Your question was what attracts you the most in the begging. With that being said, I think most of you men need to grow a pair of balls!! Stop trying to be some thing your not...or should I say stop tying to make folks think your some one your not... everyone has different tastes and things that get them hot. That being said, there so one that thinks you are hot!! So get out there and have some fun and don't take it personal if and a hottie don't click.. Good luck


joemastro 64M
13 posts
6/27/2015 12:05 pm

Depends ...is it a booty call, or relationship?


lukeorlucas 43M
449 posts
6/27/2015 7:32 pm

if they dont have anything up stairs why waste your time down stairs


ksufan2000 46M
1 post
6/28/2015 12:08 am

For the sole reason that you said "in the beginning" meaning I hadn't talked to her, I had to go w/ looks. There has to be some level of attraction there or it just doesn't work. Now if I meet two girls and one is drop dead gorgeous but is a total airhead, then I'm going to pick the less physically attractive but can carry on a conversation one every time.


lukeorlucas 43M
449 posts
6/28/2015 6:40 pm

i prefer me


itcurls 41M
59 posts
7/3/2015 6:12 am

In my opinion both matters.


bluelad24 62M
81 posts
7/5/2015 5:35 am

Depends on the situation really....
If your out and an attractive person walks past, do you look ??? Yes, so its looks that attract because you have no idea of that persons personality.
Sometimes you can talk to a person who looks stunning and yet feel no sexual connection, you just don't click or that person may just be a total bitch/arsehole.
We each have our own attractions,what we look for in another person, for me its not just about body shape, the way they walk, confidence in themselves,or a cheeky smile, a glint in their eye, all come to the forefront and help create an attraction.
If you look like Miss World but treat me like shit .....I'm not staying around.

LOOKS attract us , but PERSONALITY keeps us......


Make_U_Cum2016 55M/52F  
2113 posts
7/5/2015 10:46 pm

Initially I was thinking......this is a touch choice.

But..........its no secret in my circle....that I am a ASS man.

if I woman has a nice basketball shaped ass.........then nothing else matters.

I have fucked some really ugly women.......but because of their ass.......I was all in and hooked.

So.....if I meet a woman who looks good..............has a great personality........and a basketball ass..........I might still be mostly attracted to her ass. How shallow is that? lol

But I do want my woman to have a sexy personality........and that comes largely into play........if she is lacking in the ass department.

"Be selective in your battles, for sometimes Peace is better than being right"

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rocky2774 49M
565 posts
7/8/2015 3:56 am

Personality and interest are top most priority for me.. but they come into picture when i have interacted with someone.. til then (means initially) selecting partner goes on P{hysical Attributes/Body/Beauty

ROCK SOLID HARDY
ROCKY!!!!

rocky2774


hornyriz 73M
5 posts
7/8/2015 6:49 am

it's not an either or - first thing for me is 'do you have ass? and are u relatively easy on the eyes?' - then even if you are a dumbo and i want to fuck then you will get fucked at-least once - but for longer term relationship then in addition to ass you must have personality and brains


workfun101 38M

7/13/2015 6:24 pm

Really, for me there has to be a bit of both. I'm an engineer so unintelligent will definitely kill anything physical for me. I don't want to have to hold my smart ass comments


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