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Yep Im the monogamous, needs a connection bonker. Anything else is meaningless to me.
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There has to be something there and some kind of fore-play. 
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"If" I was looking, it would take several dates....I would want to "really" get to know her!
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When I feel a connection.
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I voted for "fuck at the drop of a hat". If I'm attracted to her, I'd even fuck her with her hat on. Or, if we both wear hats. Or on a pile of hats. I'm just trying to be honest. I never have the opportunity anymore, so it's now a moot point, but in the past, when I did have those chances, I grabbed them. An emotional connection makes everything better, but I had quite a bit? a lot? some? of what is now referred to as NSA sex. I did it when I could. I'm married now and in love and so I am faithful. But if I weren't married? I'd still rather be in love, but I'd take what I can get. Waiting for Godot can take a long time. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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I would prefer a LTR, and however it happens Double live gonzo first meet or build up to it. Talkin dirty to me these days may be enough, hell who knows. Old neighbourhood adage, kinda crass: Gotta have two tits, a hole, and heartbeat. Everything else...just extras. Think i grew up in an odd place.
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I voted the first option, and really had to agree and laugh with kzoopair !!!
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Great poll!!!
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I've often been known to my break my no-sex-on-first-date rule. My brain gets persuaded to break the rule! 
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10/18/2014 1:59 am |
all I need is to feel good about that person. If that doesnt happen in the first hour it aint ever gonna happen An orgasm a day , makes you so much happier at work and play
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i selected extensive phone and internet as it takes me ages to feel ready, and even then it would still depend on the sense of connection being strong when meeting face to face
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If she's hot willing and gets me hard, the sooner the better. As long as we don't get arrested then I will fuck a hot girl anywhere any time. I'm single at the moment but if I wasn't I would still fuck the girl then bring her back to see my girlfriend so she could play to. I have a policy of only one cock in my relationships and I have it. I also like my girls to be bi, so that we can share. I think bring home strange is the best way to keep things interesting. Check out my blog and profile!
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I have noticed your doing more poll.. Good for you get your name out there on another HotMatch.com board. I really have to know this person first hugsssssssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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I married three who I did number one with basically even if in two cases more than an hour passed. I chose one because in those cases, and several I didn't marry we just knew when we made eye contact. In retrospect with my first two wives its a miracle we didn't do it in public and ignore everyone around us. You remember from chemistry class what happened when solid sodium was put in water. We reacted like that. Even I'm a bit shocked by how many women I slept with before we ever went on an actual date --- though in all those cases we were in a committed relationship after. It's just as well I'm a guy, I would have spent half my life pregnant if I had been a woman. I can and do say no, but don't always see the point.  Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated. 
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Three dates is usually a good guideline for me. I want to have a good connection with that person, and I have found sex on the first date to be largely regrettable. It put immediate pressure on me to justify having already had sex, and when the connection never developed, it made it more painful to part ways. If we don't have sex and don't develop a connection, parting ways is a lot easier for both. [post 3097853] Come join the half-nekkid fun! Check out HNW Bloggers.  
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I have to get to know someone....chatting online, talking on the phone, and then a meet and greet! If we have the chemistry then we can negotiate the fun! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64 
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10/20/2014 12:55 am |
I actually have to chat with someone that I m thinking of seeing then I set up a public place to meet with them , over coffee, over drinks , over lunch or dinner.. as we chat I get to have a great conversation I hope and learn more and they might feel more comfortable with me.. after that if it s a no go on there part.. it was an enjoyable evening or lunch and we go on our separate ways no harm no foul.. other wise its "Katie bar the door"..lol face piles of trials with smiles.. MOODY BLUES please feel free to visit my blog happy blogging
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I would want to wait and meet and then see if there is some chemistry , otherwise it will not be good. Uusually you know very quickly if things will work out
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I was tricked by this vote. I see 1 and 2 as kind of the same. Both indicate sex at the first meeting is a definite possibility.
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oh thought minimum was referring to a dollar amount.....checked it out cuz we've been giving it away free if the sexual compatibility and personality is there.
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I voted for no. 1 but in reality I doubt I have the balls for that these days. If she is still keen by the end of the evening then it is all systems go.
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I voted other. for me there is no definite answer. with some it might take a long time to get to know them to see if we will click. for some I know it has only taken a few moment to know what was going to happen. I think it is all in the confidence that the other exudes. I met one woman that within two minutes of talking together we both knew what was going to happen and we couldn't wait. so that took about 4 minutes before we were in bed together naked and enjoying.
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I need a connection. I hate the awkwardness of someone I don't connect with on a mental level. I sent an Angel to watch over you last night, it returned in a hurry. I asked why, it said "Angels can't watch porn." Thanks for fucking traumatizing my fucking Angel! Don't bother trying to figure me out. Not even the little voices in my head understand me. It's pointless!
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In truth, if a woman indicated she wanted it, I doubt if I would say no, regardless of whether we had known each other for minutes of years. But for me to make the first move - it would take a significant level of connection - lots of conversation, either online or in person, probably equivalent to three dates.
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If it was through a site like this, it generally would take months of "casual" correspondence - reading blogs, exchanging email, occasional one-on-one chat, "stalking" their online activities, lol, to see if their behavior matches their words - before I'd decide if I wanted to meet in person. I spend a lot of time vetting guys, getting background information, family, past relationships, where they are in life, STDs. For the last - MANY - years, I simply haven't been "looking" here, so I haven't really cared about being on any sort of time-table for getting to know or date anyone. THEN usually - at that first meet - I know within the first minute if I'd consider having sex with them. SO fucking on the first date after the months of correspondence doesn't really feel "that" promiscuous to me. The only time I've hooked up (3 times in 10 years) with guys I met "in real life" - I had already known them for 20 years, or in the case of my last long-term boyfriend, I knew people for 20 years who had known HIM for 20 years. And then it took about a week or two. I'm not at ALL a fan of sex with strangers.
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