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Blogs > greatnsgirl > Sleepin single in a double bed

First meets  

greatnsgirl 62F
171 posts
2/26/2015 5:19 pm
First meets

So I have been wondering what you all do for a first meet and greet? Do you go for coffee? A drink? Do you go to their house? What do you expect on the first meet? Just chatting. ..kissing? Touching? Or jump right into sex? As a single woman I am generally very careful about putting myself in a vulnerable situation. I am curious to hear what other women think and also from a man's point of view.
Jilly {=}
greatnsgirl 62F
67 posts
3/1/2015 3:49 pm

 Thanks I totally agree with you. I was looking for opinions as see men I have talked to think it's unreasonable to have those rules. I never follow through and meet those men.
Jilly {=}


kcclaire0923 68F  
822 posts
3/1/2015 2:18 pm

 Never ever ever meet at his house or have him come to your house on a first meet...I don't care how long you have been "chatting" online or even on the phone. It's dangerous world out there and remember one can be anything they want to be on a computer screen then be something totally different in person. I have met many in 4 years as a member here on HotMatch.com and on a first meet always at a Star Bucks, or Denny's or even a nice steakhouse. Many times I have RUN home and blocked them from further contact online and on my cell phone. Other times, I have slept with them that same night or shortly thereafter if the chemistry is right and he was not deceptive about who is really is. Jut be careful and NEVER let them know where you live at first....


greatnsgirl 62F
67 posts
2/27/2015 4:08 pm

 Thanks for reading and the input!
Jilly {=}


lovetokissplease 64F  
511 posts
2/26/2015 6:53 pm

 I always meet in a public place. It can be a Burger King or a fancy restaurant. Just has to be public.


mikenb_1957 67M
19 posts
2/26/2015 5:31 pm

 I would say it's all about what you are comfortable with.

I would guess most would opt for meeting in a public neutral spot like a coffee shop first to see if things click.

The organized coffee meets held regularly in Moncton, Fredericton and Halifax area are a good way to meet in a no pressure situation and see where things lead.

I wouldn't necessarily recommend anyone go to a private home for a first meet unless you are pretty sure you know the person.


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