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Too Many Men!
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Too Many Men! I put this on my alt blog but think it's worth repeating here cos I'm getting the same on this site. My kink is older men and I've been lucky to meet three so far. One was really hot - 58 yr old who ended up doing me with his friend  With so many men contacting me (guess its my age  ) I can only answer a few. Two of the things that rule someone out for me are:1. Someone who starts off by saying they're older than their profile says (I get this a LOT). Iv had guys say they're 1 to 15 years older than their profile. If you've lied about your age to get girls who don't want someone as old as you then I'm not interested. If you're lying to me to get in my knickers, I'm not interested. Simples  2. Pestering. If you just keep sending me mails and chat messages when I haven't answered you and get uptight about me not answering then it aint gonna happen. Got about 5 guys like this at the moment and don't feel like explaining myself to everyone I haven't answered. Is this the same for other on here? I've had some real fun with the guys I've met but it's hard to spot the good ones. |
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Not just young girls, lol. I'm generally comfortable about 7 years in either direction but I routinely get guys way older than that asking for dates.
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Men are many and meat headed. In the UK, on this website, there are 3.5 million profiles... 1.4 million of those are men seeking women. There are 57'798 women seeking men. These are not accurate figures... the site covets profiles long after they have been deserted by their owners. People often join multiple times... fakes, trolls, bots all creates profiles at will. Because there are so many men here and they are driven by alcohol, testorone... desperation, the mis-sold dream that Various spoon fed them when they joined ("fuck horny women in your area tonight") and unintelligence... and because there is so few women I am afraid that "they" will never quite get the message. Your profile is impressive, you are young, you are, to a degree, sexually precocious and forthright you are always going to be inundated. It is something you will come to terms with or it will drive you away. Maybe you should widen the pool as well. Fetlife and Fabswingers are free (well optional upgrades but you can message and view other profiles for free) and a gentler experience. Would not mind the opportunity to say "hi" myself... hopefully... Take it easy and do not let them grind you down.
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By the way get into the rhythm of blocking & reporting those who are rude or over-step the mark or harrass you... sometimes it takes people a bit of time to get used to doing that... but the site gives you the tools to keep people at arms length. They (the bad ones) cannot be reasoned with, they will not develop reason and go away, or apologise, or calm down... you owe them no explanations (which if you are ignoring them you already know) but by no blocking them you leave the lines of communication open. In this sea there are so many fish for you that you can cut the line on the rotten ones and the sooner you do it the less chance they have of creating a stick and poisoning your experience.
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1/9/2013 12:53 am |
I'm with loosetooth; lots of overbearing impolite people on here; just 'cos it's a sex site doesn't mean you can abandon common politeness and good manners Having said that, it'd be great if we can catch each other on IM sometime; I am in the London area quite often with work and a little London based fantasy fulfilment would be great 
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1/10/2013 1:10 pm |
Just a quickie  I'm in London tomorrow for a meeting (11th). would happily buy you a glass of pink champagne in St Pancras before I get the train back. Post on my blog if you want to.
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It's your age and I expect you are being swamped with emails but only one from me though! -------------------- Only interested in younger women for real meets rather than just cyber. Girls, if you like girth then mine is 6.5"/16.5 cm (see video). old4younger1301
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Wish you were more active in your blog pages! -------------------- Only interested in younger women for real meets rather than just cyber. Girls, if you like girth then mine is 6.5"/16.5 cm (see video). old4younger1301
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1 post 6/6/2013 5:22 pm |
you will get that gut feeling about genuine ones,go with it, I have and usually only about 10% real
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1 post 8/25/2013 10:30 pm |
caught my attention, so check maybe see whats up
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Thanks for the comments everyone. My pet peeve is men who desperately try to convince me that they're 10 years older than what's on their profile like everything would be ok if they could. The number of times I've been offered to look at passports, driving licenses lol. Not one has got that I might just be put off by the fact that they're lying to get younger girls then tying to convince me otherwise because it suits them. What's that expression?... You make your bed so now lie in it?
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Wow, a record today. I got messaged from a guy who is 26 according to his profile. He claims to actually be 48 (and looks about that in the pic he sent). That's just sad. I might be into older men but what about the girl who meets him thinking she's going to see someone her age? I wish I could name and shame.
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Wow, a record today. I got messaged from a guy who is 26 according to his profile. He claims to actually be 48 (and looks about that in the pic he sent). That's just sad. I might be into older men but what about the girl who meets him thinking she's going to see someone her age? I wish I could name and shame.
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Of course, some men lie about their age in order to meet women the same age as them who've also lied about their age. A tricky game of double-bluff. I've put my real DoB on HotMatch.com, but I knocked 5 years off my age on another site and ended up meeting a woman who'd knocked no fewer than 9 years off hers. Was I disappointed? Not in the slightest. In fact I was rather pleased....
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I prefer being honest about my age, but a lot of the women seem to have a certain dissonance between profile pic and age... So it's not only men.
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It's good to be picky. Luckily young lady you are in the drivers seat when it comes to choosing who you would like to chat with or even meet. I can just hope I intrigue you enough to venture further. My Bite Is Way Better Than My Bark, And My Nibble Is Even Better. 
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