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Blogs > discreetcpl6267 > Her Freak Flag is Flying Now

A little venting  

discreetcpl6267 56F  
7 posts
3/13/2016 12:51 am
A little venting

Just like everyone on here, it all starts for me with a wink or a kind comnent. Sometimes they are cheesy as fuck and get deleted. Others get a response. Sometimes further, a conversation begins. Private contacts are exchanged for more private conversation. On a very few instances, there is a meet for a drink or coffee. In extremely rare occasions an actual date is planned, and I mean FUCKING RARE.

If I'm comfortable with how things progress, there may be some alone time for fun.

Sunday I agreed to meet a man that seemed like just what I may be looking for. Photos nice looking, educated and articulate and not looking to just add my notch to his bedpost.

I put my safety plan in place, told friends who I was meeting and where just like I always do. I arrived early and waited. First, let me say that I hold timeliness right up there on my list with how attractive I find you. He was 15 minutes late. 🚨

He gets there and gives me a very awkward side hug and sits down. The conversation progresses and I started to notice that he is repeating the last 5-6 words I say. Like a bad SNL skit. 🚨

Date wraps up and I'm 95% sure I'm not gonna fuck this dude. But i'm kind and say thanks for a nice time. We go our separate ways.

Next day, he asks to see me again on Thursday. I beg off that I'm busy. He pushes for a meet on Friday night instead, to which I also declined. Now I started to receive many texts about he's the right guy for me.

This accelerated into threatening texts about how I'm a tease, , slut and a liar. I sent him an email requesting he no longer contact me. I deleted and blocked him from contacting me on kik. But before I could do anything else, he went onto the site here, accessed my profile and sent me threatening messages. When I deleted them, he managed to go to my photo albums and write some very hurtful, harsh and rude comments about me.

Many people saw them and I was, frankly, mortified. I alerted HotMatch.com that this nut job has issues with rejection and had him blocked. But boy oh boy is the damage done.

This should serve as a warning to anyone who is contacted by Pdx4ever747. Do not meet him or give him the impression that you are even remotely interested or he will fixate on you. He is unpredictable, and you should RUN, NOT WALK the other direction.

rm_wetnessbiu 55F
91 posts
3/16/2016 9:55 am

 Your very lucky. I find a lot of men on here have high expectations when they hit you up that sex is going to be the result. They don't realize that they still have to be screened for a lot of reasons. There are more men then women on this webite.


B82Day 66M
11 posts
3/13/2016 8:09 am

 That's scary! Take care of yourself,girl...


honeybe808 44F
11 posts
3/13/2016 1:05 am

 Glad to hear you are safe and protected yourself. Who knows what would have happened if you two did have sex.


discreetcpl6267 replies on 3/13/2016 12:50 pm:
I felt like just blocking from me wasn't enough. I've always listened to my intuition and it was SCREAMING at me even over 1 drink. If something feels off, it probably is.
Thanks for the support.

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