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NO MAGNET WHATSOEVER  

golosa1115 62F
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12/11/2016 11:33 am
NO MAGNET WHATSOEVER
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golosa1115 62F
1066 posts
12/11/2016 12:01 pm


classicalrebel4 68M
1755 posts
12/11/2016 12:06 pm

 I don't get it either, I often think that I must have negative charisma.
Please don't let me be misunderstood.


golosa1115 replies on 12/17/2016 8:24 pm:
I guess I was on the same line at birth.

OldrHarleyGuy 72M

12/11/2016 12:39 pm

 Seems to be a lot of us in the same boat here.


golosa1115 replies on 12/17/2016 8:34 pm:
I think there is nothing worse than having lived with the same person for almost 30 years and than being discarded when chances of finding a partner or even a FWB is so scarce.

Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
12/11/2016 1:28 pm

 That's terrible hun I don't know why some ladies are just not noticed. Perhaps you should interact with people more. I know a lot of men like women who tell it like it is in a funny kind of smart ass way..
Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


golosa1115 replies on 12/17/2016 8:38 pm:
I was married for 3 decades until a few years ago, I guess its harder trying to connect with man who are probably only looking for a fuck on the side for hard moments in their life for when they're having issues with their actual partner. It seems those are the only ones that are always available in the real world. Of course there are a lot of man on this and other sites. But I am not going to be 56 forever.

CookiesNMischief 38M

12/11/2016 8:03 pm

 - Eye of the beholder seems to be a subjective thing nowadays, as depth perception and personal wants and desires tend to narrow even the most open minded of individuals.

That said, it's funny to think in my mind I'm drifting to the imaginative idea that there's some sort of serendipity, a chance encounter or happy accident coming my way, where the people I cross when I'm out and about magically become impressionable individuals making a mark in my life somehow.

The sad state of affairs is that in this day and age we are a social media society communicating through sites like this, and by navigating and communicating through our cell phones. That old adage, it's me, not you, by a long shot holds true here. But the unfortunate fact is that most people spend too much time staring at some screen instead of interacting humanly toward their fellow humans.

Even then, when we stand out, we only blend in and go invisible. All I can say is just be, you - granted, it does take two to tango for a meet and greet; however, if someone fails to see you beyond what's in front of them, then they're missing out on a great opportunity knocking at their door


golosa1115 replies on 12/17/2016 8:44 pm:
Thanks so much for your insight. I am aware of the social media communication through internet navigation. I am not for it, in fact I hate when I am on the train and ppl are so deep in their games or selfies that they constantly walk into one another.

Otis_Good 71M
4037 posts
12/15/2016 7:54 pm

 They may not be the most snappy dressers but yu have to figure that they got some at home are or not looking . Now I on the other hand why just the other day I was at the Wallymuck and there was a woman dressed to the nines . She was grabbing some beer and I said excuse me ... She held her hand out saying no no I don't have the time . So I didn't bother to tell her that her cell phone had fell to the floor . Then I saw another woman who was dressed really nice and I walked up to her and said I don't want or expect anything from you I just want to tell you that outfit makes you look beautiful and turn to walk away . She stopped me saying where you going and we chit chatted for a while . So I think it is more about what time allows .


golosa1115 replies on 12/17/2016 8:53 pm:
You have a great point there Otis.

olderguy4fun5 62M
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32 posts
1/30/2017 7:38 am

 i know how you feel im 56 over weight and having same thing happen to me

golosa you are a very sexy n hot woman you caught my eye xo


golosa1115 replies on 2/10/2017 12:59 pm:
awe thanks so much Olderguy4fun5

porterpiper1 57F
3755 posts
2/5/2017 10:13 pm

 IT IS ALL ABOUT EVERYONE WANT TO LIVE THIS HOLLYWOOD LIFE, WHAT THEY SAY A WOMAN SHOULD LOOK LIKE, SO PEOPLE ARE BRAINWASH INTO TO BELIEVING THAT IS WHAT A REAL WOMAN SHOULD LOOK


golosa1115 replies on 2/10/2017 1:02 pm:
Porterpiper1 you have a lot of sense in your comment. Its not just Hollywood its also customs how some countries are brought up to believe what is consider WOW.

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