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sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
4/10/2015 8:38 pm

That's an excellent list !!!!


dreaming2nite 92F  
6015 posts
4/10/2015 9:04 pm

Great list!

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fondaclitz 66M
65 posts
4/10/2015 9:20 pm

This is a great list, thx for taking the time to make it


demonicsexkitten 48F
10694 posts
4/10/2015 11:42 pm

Wonderful list!

And how did you get the .gif to be so clear?


humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
4/10/2015 11:50 pm

This is a smart list, and one that most couples (and, wotthehell, poly arrangements) would benefit from using as a conversation starter. Not all of these items would apply to all situations, of course, but I'd add one:

48. Cook together. And really cook together, as in all of you working on the same dishes at the same time. Even if you're in the kitchen together, every person working only on his/her own dish has the feeling of a potluck meal. What you should be going for is a shared nurturing experience.

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
4/11/2015 5:35 am

I concur....but you must be able to have sex with each other at last weekly, not phone sex or texting, rather face to face sex!

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submokey 69M/62F
10383 posts
4/11/2015 5:53 am

I'm more open than my Lady, accept that, she not a talker about sex sometimes. But, we have our fun!

Romance her heart, tease her body, enjoy the company shared in bed n out! Treasure every moment spent together, in good times n bad!
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CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
4/11/2015 7:13 am

Lots of good ideas for sure. #2 is a definite fav of mine!

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Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
4/11/2015 9:09 am

I like 11 & 12..also I like to bring a guy or girl in to have sex with the two of us!!. The treesome thing really spices things up!!!


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
4/11/2015 11:30 am

That's a great list there and very accurate too..thanks for sharing it here.. I hope everyone reads it..Have a great weekend..

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scoupe42 60M

4/11/2015 12:07 pm

Good points!


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
4/11/2015 1:30 pm

I'm fizzled out trying to remember everything on this list


rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
4/11/2015 6:00 pm

Practiced most of them, though two wives came in the bath and held it while I peed --- doing it standing up is the real penis envy. And Sarah and I did have a television in the bedroom because she liked to watch porn with me as foreplay. Sarah was a big tit man.

I find women mysterious enough without having to worry about maintaining it.

I can boil it all down though to one thing. Never stop courting each other. Act as if you still have to win her if you are married fifty years and she as if she has to seduce you. Tell each other you love each other, never assume she knows it. It's work, it doesn't just happen.

Sarah and Angelique and I both agreed to never carry anything over into the bedroom. Even if we wanted to kill each other in the kitchen, we had sex and cuddling in the bedroom (sometimes angry sex, but still ...) . If we were both well we had some sexual contact every day and usually every morning and at bedtime. No day we were together in either relationship ever went by without at least one sexy long kiss.

After Sarah died it took a time for me to recognize that the reason I was waking up so early and honry was I was used to being awakened by a blow job.

I used to do things as little as pick up a silk rose or favorite candy bar when I stopped for gas, wake early and go for coffee, apple fritters, and the papers Sunday morning so we could spend the day in bed (I cooked on Sunday for Sarah because she did the rest of the week).

Sarah said she was already spoiled rotten, I just ruined her.

I hope so. What use is loving someone if you don't spoil them?



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boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
4/11/2015 7:47 pm

Great list! Two thumbs up!


senecaguy2 63M
339 posts
4/14/2015 8:23 am

Excellent list!!!!


lil_whimsical 53F
8781 posts
4/21/2015 5:30 am

Good list. I found myself in an email conversation with a married guy recently, who (as usual) said he was here because the wife had no interest in sex, but in all other aspects of their marriage, everything was good. And I did the lecture about how him being on this site trying to hook up with other women isn't going to improve the situation with his wife, and will make EVERYTHING dramatically worse if she were to find out.

Dudes say they've tried EVERYTHING - but I wonder if they truly have. I seriously doubt it.


Reddyramkrishna 36M
40 posts
4/24/2015 9:41 am

One more thing interest of botb


akash5708 28M
18 posts
4/25/2015 9:10 am

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youngr24 33M

4/26/2015 10:19 am

This is a great list to learn from. Thanks for the tips!


rm_drgonzo2121 37M
12 posts
4/29/2015 9:48 pm

just wanted to echo the sentiments of how awesome this list is!


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