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Great post!  However, I feel there needs to be one correction. The men far outnumber the women on this site (not the other way around as you posted).
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Well said... squirt
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Very true ! Some people are not really living in the real world harboring such ridiculous ideas about women and the site as youve mentioned !! You can nearly hear those guys cocks deflate with disappointment as you point out the way things really are and how they work ! Its even a bit embarrassing that you have to explain it !! And worse, that many will continue to carry on as they have been doing, frustrated, horny and alone !
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Excellent post and right to the point. Your right, some people just think because it is an Adult site, that they can get away with the one liners when writing to the women here. I mean, how many men here actually walk up on the street, store, or even a bar, and just say, "Wanna fuck?" Some people need to learn some tact and manners.
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Ha actually I have had more offers of sex on POF than I have here Don't compromise yourself! You are all you've got!
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I feel people are able to use this site as they wish! Everyone is not out here for the same reasons! I dont think that makes them wrong just because your not seeking the same things others are! js
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1/19/2015 10:59 am |
Strippers and prostitutes "require" only one thing: money. Other than that... spot on.  Lol
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Men actually take the sites' advertisement "get laid in 24 hours" literally. Speaking of not living in the real world. Who in their right mind would actually believe that? Takes all kinds here.
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1/19/2015 11:25 am |
Good post. Respect is the key issue here and it goes both ways. Man's respect for a woman and a woman's respect for a man. You have both sides that seem to forget that now and then.
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Men actually take the sites' advertisement "get laid in 24 hours" literally. Not a real sign of intelligence here.
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 I've been here long enough to know what not to say when sending messages etc. This place may have it's faults but you can make it work with a little effort. 
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Missy great post..I hope everyone reads it..cuz it was spot on!!! Have a great day.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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I have to mildly disagree on a few points, though my differences are more on style than substance. “If men want to be successful here they need to accept that in order to get fucked they need to be respectful” - that makes it sound false and conniving. Men on here need to be respectful because that is how you treat other people, both women AND men. And there really is nothing wrong with a “wanna fuck” email, though I mean to someone you know well, and NOT as an opening gambit. A Good OldFashioned Sex Party Is This Sexy Let39s Have A PREBeach Party, on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Blog – Tell me All your Secrets
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yes, I have heard the complaints from men here that they are not meeting any ladies and they are not getting laid. I laugh at them. They deserve not to get laid or meet any ladies. They think their cock photos and their initial "let's fuck" emails will be enough of an enticement for the ladies.....lol, they don't get it! They don't understand they still have to work to get to know them and compliment them and cajole them. Yes, like most relationships it takes work....even on HotMatch.com! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64 
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"The World's Largest Sex Dating Site & Swinger Personals Community", that what it say at the top of every page... yet some believe the site should be narrowly defined how they want it to be. Everyone one wants respect, women and men, but some people come here with, or develop a sense of entitlement, as smart and sexy lady pointed on the me recently. If shit isn't working for you, then change your shit . People just refuse to learn, and think complain is going to help.The definition of Insanity: "doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results". There is a lot of that here, it just insane. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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You hit it right on the nose!! Great post!!
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This is my pet peeve as well. No, this is actually a sore subject that I've ranted about to death again and again. Don't they get it? They will attract more of us with honey than with vinegar of their rudeness and vulgarity. Visit my blog It's a Mad, Mad, Mad World of NaughtyInSO, leave a comment, become a watcher. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ LIVE AND LET LIVE Be happy! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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"Great post", Missy!!
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No its not a relationship site, but you never know what will fall into your lap. I always tell people there is really no such thing as "NSA" on here. You think you're going to find someone to call up randomly and say "I want some pussy, come over" and she's going to do that? Yeah, good luck with that. I've had exactly one situation approaching that in all my time on earth, and it was because of the situation she was in that she went with it. 99% of the time otherwise a woman would feel disrespected if I did that. Theres always strings. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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I just love all those emails telling me I'm in the wrong place for relationships --- I'm all.. hmm, so where does a person that really likes sex find others that really like sex.... relationship, wise? Or those that are polyamorous --- to find other poly -- open minded people, if not this site??? And. my husband found me in the blogs, here. damn those stringless strings!!
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Your words are wise and true. Why is it a problem from some people to be respectful. I've never understood that either. It's understanding the purpose of the site and many don't take the time to comprehend or even care. Bud Always Ready for Fun.
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This topic is always a good conversation starter. While I completely agree that people can use this site for whatever purpose they choose and that good manners are always appreciated and welcomed, I'm still puzzled by one thing ... Why would anyone seeking an LTR join a site where the chances of finding one are slim to none? If you're single, attractive and serious about finding an LTR, then why not try your luck on a mainstream dating site? There's no shortage of sexually-charged people there and your chances of finding a relationship would be greatly improved. However, if you're married, attached, into group play, enjoy casual sex, have certain kinks or fetishes, bi or bi-curious ... then A F F and other "sex" sites are really your best bets. If your "kink" is dating, LTR and lasting connections, I think there are better options.
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Perhaps you should start a "How to Properly Communicate with Women: For Men." blog. I would certainly read it. I think men here, sometimes myself too, are too focused on the physical aspect of sex and partnership. We thrive with the doing as that is how we normally act, and not the conversing. Which we do, but not as part of our main focus when we find a person attractive. Men react more physically as so we tend to foolishly believe that our female partner will want to react the same. Much to our disappointment. When faced with my own initial interactions with women that faced the same issue I had to wonder, and a lover of mine answered. "Men are like fire, quick to be aroused and easily extinguished. Women however, are like water and take awhile to heat up. But once they are, they last longer. Hope that helps the dudes out there.
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I'd love to see everyone here for relationships vs sex copy this post and post it to their blogs ----- maybe then, some would realize that this is a place to find that and have long term relationships. Be it one on one. Just for fun, or more than one --- PERIOD. Maybe then they'll stop with their: "You aren't in the right place.. THIS IS MY FANTASY -- random hook ups only " 
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Exactly right on.
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