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Are you enticed by the idea of a NSA fling thing?
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Are you enticed by the idea of a NSA fling thing? The idea seems really exciting, because you get to have the cake and eat it too! However, it's not for everyone. Not everyone can handle the delicacy of this fake relationship that feels like love but isn't anything more than a few moments of lust ,fun and fucking. For some, it starts off fun and turns into a one sided romance and then for others, it ends with insecurity and jealousy. If you're a big believer in love and fairy tales, or if you like the whole idea of rescuing someone or being romantically rescued by someone, then these casual NSA relationships aren't for you. So I decided to create some rules perhaps it can become helpful for you to use. Don't get confused with your emotions It's easy to believe you're falling in love with your casual partner. If you think you're seriously falling for your partner, avoid them for a few weeks and see if you still miss them Set the ground rules There are no hard and fast rules in casual relationships. But that doesn't mean there are no rules at all. A few basic rules could go a long way in making the relationship work for both of you. A few good questions to ask: - If one of us falls in love with someone else, can we end things abruptly? - Are we going to keep this relationship a secret from everyone else? - If it's not working out for you, will you tell me about it the very instant you feel it? Emotionally unavailable relationship A person who wants a casual relationship is usually the kind of partner who is emotionally unavailable for a serious relationship. They want all the benefits of a sexual relationship, without the baggage of being emotionally available to their lover. Don't get trapped One of the biggest things you need to be wary of in a casual relationship is getting trapped in the relationship. You may not realize this until you're ready to step out of the relationship. Protected sex Always have protected sex with a no strings attached partner. There's no way you can ever know just how many others this person is sleeping with at the same time. Dee_Cums  |
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Wow this was really good!  Sometimes I fall in the "trap."Greater Than The Sum Of My Constituent Parts! 
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All great advice!
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1 post 3/1/2015 4:26 am |
Well written and true! I happened to be married and do look for a few nsa encounters. That said I've turned down far more than I've accepted due to 'getting to know you' emails that reveal what the other is really after. NSA means exactly that and it is far better to avoid the red flags than deal with the drama and danger of someone who didn't receive the strings.
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5/1/2015 12:59 am |
For a change here is an intelligent member who understands all the aspects of fwb, and someone whom you can feel comfortable with if you ever get the opportunity to interact with. I would consider myself lucky indeed if I am someone who gets that opportunity in the future. 
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I agree with the points you lay out. But you never know what the heart will do...lol Casual relationships--NSA--are great for those who like the variety it offers, have very limited time to offer and maintain a more serious relationship, or--and there is a lot of this on the site--they can't get laid and are desperate for that physical companionship. For me it's the time and the variety. I'm not seriously looking for the "feelings". But, once again, you never can tell what the heart will say. I was lucky enough to meet a young lady on here that I gelled with and we both decided to take it further. And by playing as a couple we both got the variety we needed in life. Now that that is over I'm back to NSA...unless I find another where everything just clicks!
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I definitely agree with you totally!
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