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Blogs > spiderj72 > Going to Hell for sure

Saying what you want.  

spiderj72 51M
5951 posts
3/30/2016 7:19 am
Saying what you want.

So my friend and I were joking around via text the other day and she just bluntly put it to me "I need a good finger fucking"
After I stopped giggling to myself I told her how much I loved her for the obvious reasons. This is my friend that I can tell I am forgetting what pussy tastes like or that I am need of a blowjob severely. She countered with "wouldn't women get further if they just said what they wanted."
I said that the world would be a much better place if both genders did that. Imagine for a change just straight up communication. No having to read nuance and subtlety but instead knowing for sure what a partner wants.

She said that men probably couldn't handle it. I might agree with her. But I think anyone who wasn't honest with themselves wouldn't make it very far in that new world. What do you think?

spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
3/30/2016 1:23 pm
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tact does have its place. I hate that some seem to confuse tact with not being honest. honesty makes everything so much better.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
3/30/2016 1:24 pm
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now I will race off to find what you posted. why confuse the matter? why not just say what you are wanting?


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
3/30/2016 3:04 pm
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I can think of about a dozen conversations that you need to have with a potential partner that need to be honest and open. from the number of partners and std risks to kinks and what gets your motor running. however we live in a day and age where being dishonest and covering up our true motives is the norm.


JJLooken 56M/46F
366 posts
3/30/2016 10:37 pm

 For most things in life -- Yes. For some -- No.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
3/31/2016 2:00 pm
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she is pretty damn hot too.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
3/31/2016 2:01 pm
    Quoting JJLooken:
    For most things in life -- Yes. For some -- No.
I would really like to know what you don't feel needs to be honest?


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