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I've Been Called A lot of Things in My Day...
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I've Been Called A lot of Things in My Day... *The Review Crew did quite a hack job on this post- hopefully my new edits will pass muster long enough to make my point... I became aware of a site called fuck a slut through my friend Softy. She wrote a post on her own blog when she stumbled across her photos, profile and blog on this 'sister site' of passion. All of you are on this site. Every last one of your photos are being used as bait and you are being touted as a SLUT. The men are there as well- nice to know you Gentleman are being associated with the lowest form of life: men who think women are nothing but free-wheeling cum dumpsters. I'm beginning to understand the contents of my inbox and where they matriculated from. Newsflash: I am not a slut. I will not be advertised as one. I will not pay money to utilize a site which pimps me out like a two-bit . I signed on to an ADULT WEBSITE- I'm not naive of this fact. 'Implied consent' buried in the fine print is for assholes. For now, I'm in the process of removing all the pics from my profile and deleting all my face photos from my blog (and won't be posting any more). If this situation is not rectified, I'm considering resigning my blog and membership and I strongly suggest you consider doing the same. It may not make a difference to the Pimps that Be, but it makes a difference to me. ADDENDUM: I contacted customer service and this is a synopsis of what transpired: Me: I don't want my profile associated with fuck a slut. Her: It's an affiliate site of Eh Eff Eff. We can't unlink you. Me: So my only option is to cancel my membership with Eh Eff Eff? Okay. Let's do that then. Her: Just a moment, please. (Bee Gees playing softly in the background) Her: Thanks for holding. I was able to bend your e-mail account. Me: What? Her: I was able to remove your e-mail from all of our affiliate sites. The only people who can view your profile are members of Eh Eff Eff. You can log in on any affiliate site, but those people cannot view your profile. Me: That's more like it. Now, I understand that they might have made a bit more effort since I'm a paying member, but perhaps this might work for the women who are free members as well. I have no idea whether or not she actually followed through and did what she claimed she would. Also: I need to know is whether Passion.com members can still view me...I do love me some Passion, you know  .When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load... |
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We're all on all of their affiliates sites... from the BDSM sites to the religious sites to the gay sites... if it's an Eh Eff Eff affiliated site we are THERE whether we want to be or now. This is an *at least* five year old problem and frankly the site owner doesn't care what misogyny (and misandry [sorry guys]) is being conducted in their names so long as they keep making $$.
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It seems they have also blocked your email from this site! So I can't even contact you outside of your blog!! That really sucks.
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Very sad to see your pictures go...but I can understand why you do so. I can't say I'm shocked but actually I am!! It is quite despicable of Eh Eff Eff to do this...it actually cheats those of us who pay to be on here to have unfettered access. It is actually very unfair and has led me to the same conclusion as you. They need to clean up there act or lose me as a customer. I hesitate to go though as I do love reading and seeing your stuff...sigh...you are one of only a few reasons I stay here...you go I won't be far behind.
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I pimped dominoxxz's post on to my blog on this subject. It really needs to be seen by as many as possible.
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This is what I did. I sent them a Email too. Warning This is not meant to offend any one in any way.     
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why the fuck would they create such a website and then lump us all into it? smarten up folks this is not cool.
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Leave it to the asshats on this site to screw up a good thing. I'll miss the pictures but hopefully the holding cell will still be graced by your unparalleled wit and regular doses of snarkiness. Take it easy, guns are cold. Take it easy, guns are cold. 
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Not sure when you called and they told you that, but as of 9:24am you're still up and visible over on fuck a slut. Both profile and blog. Sorry  I think they are just telling us that to appease us and hope we go away. I'll check back over the next couple of days and see if maybe it just needs time to take effect.
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gottaring replies on 5/22/2012 9:54 pm: Come on, GAT. DO you really think that my lousy $17.95 per month is going to illicit a change in a system that brings in thousands of dollars a day? These people don't give a shit if I strike or if I leave. It's my own fucking fault for not scrutinizing the fine print. I could reconcile being on a site like GIO or some of the other sister sites, but 'fuck a slut' is going too far. One person striking means nothing. A hundred? Especially if you bring the activity meter down significantly? Yes, you will make a difference. Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.
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Great post - thanks for posting the transcript of your phone call here. That will help some folks. This has gone viral on here. LOL - as it does every few months when we all go great guns at a sister site and then become complacent again. I awoke to some random fake profile here this morning doing a flyby in my inbox of what is going on - now I am finding blogs on it everywhere. The only way it will stick is if we all do something collectively and drastic. Putting little taglines in our profiles or as our blog tags may not cut it. ideally we all together take our photos down - same day, same statement and keep them down as long as it takes them to cut this out. There are a lot of hot chicks in blogland - that will HURT them badly. Where it counts - in their coffers.... OK this is getting long. I should go do this on my blog. LOL I am a celebration of willful chaos and a hugger.
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I was aware of being on Passion and GIO. What I did was I went to my profile page and turned it off from viewing. This way I wouldnt lose my profile here. But the fuck a slut...I cant get into...my antivirus, malware, pop up blocker just wont allow it thru...and yes I have tried changing the settings, it still wont.
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If they are doing this the way I think, I question whether they can unlink individual profile. I will admit that I'm part of the problem because I just don't give a damn anymore. I've noticed lately an increase in the amount of douchebaggery. This is a for profit entity and they will do what they want to to maintain the income flow. It pisses me off but I'm just looking at it as the price I pay for being here. Feh
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They ought to be treating us like queens rather than promoting us as sluts. If we weren't here--the men wouldn't be here either. Never ignore those who care for you you will have lost diamonds while you were collecting stones
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What I find particularly repulsive is that HotMatch.com regards its women customers/clients as the lowest type of sexual objects to exploit for their own financial gains. Their customer service department and their marketing personnel should be arrested for pimping! The women who have paid their monthly subscription fees should be asking for a refund and really be insulted. Are the men pimped out too? I think it is slanderous. What if a female who legitimately subscribed to HotMatch.com or Passion is pimped out on the slut site and is sexually assaulted by someone who recognizes her from her photo? Never ignore those who care for you you will have lost diamonds while you were collecting stones
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Well, G, you are still all over the place. I am posting a blog naming all the sites we are on... there are 49 that I counted during my google search.
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5/22/2012 8:08 pm |
Nice catch by Wendy. I checked and you're all over different sites. My fave is One Night Stand girls. My profile is even on a Hookup site. Woo-hoo for me!! Now the emails from Fuck a Slut girls will start rolling in to my inbox.
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Yet another reason for my face never being out there. "You've seen my descent, Now watch my rising!" - Rumi Some women are lost in the fire. Some women are forged from it - Michele K.
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I've just done a whois search on fuckaslut.com (is that the real address?) ... It seams that the site is a godaddy registration and hosted site ... this would suggest to me that our site was hacked by the registrant (i have contact info now if you want it) or the images are simply linked cross site. Which our site should be able to protect against. If it was affiliated with our site I would think they would have a top level hosting and not a godaddy hosting.
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If enough people feels the way you do then yes it will matter to the site monkey's
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Strike. Make them bend to your will. Force a permanent change in the TOU that will stop such things. Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.
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