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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

Be up front  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
8/22/2016 10:18 am
Be up front

Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I definitely could use one, it's been a few days. What can I say, I'm greedy.

So, I have to work nights this week. I'm trying to get as much sleep as I can today, but it doesn't seem to be working very well.

While messaging someone back today, I thought, oh, that would make a great blog.

Here goes.

We are all here for some reason or another. It's a known sex site, so, sex is probably the top reason.

With that being said, we are all here looking for something, to blog, to talk, to make friends, to find play for one night over and over again, to put some excitement back into what relationship you are in, to actually find someone compatible looking for the same thing you are, fwb, long term, or even gasp, marriage.

It's all pretty simple.

The big elephant in the room, is the relationship. Some of us are looking for longoing term, and some even marriage. But everything has to start somewhere.

Initially, when meeting someone, you can't say, this is it, I'm doing long term with them, I want to be exclusive, etc. You pretty much can't figure on anything.

Life doesn't work that way. But, i am not a one timer either.

I don't have to be on a dating site for nsa, or one night of sex, I can find that where ever I happen to be at the moment.

I was talking to a wanna be as I call them. He said fwb, was what he was looking for. I told him that works for me.

To me, fwb, is casual dating and playing with someone for a period of time.

That is an easy start.

The thing is, two people don't know what will happen when they meet.

I take things as they are. This site is pretty much the same as others, but sex is already on the table.

That is why I prefer it.

The vanilla sites skirt the issue, and I have found more men just wanting the one nighter, or are attached and looking for some play. That's from my experience anyway.

I have also learned from some of the men I have talked to on here, just be straight up. So, I do my best to oblige them.

Any thougts. I'm done.

Have a great day.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
8/24/2016 8:16 am
    Quoting mcmaniac:
    Oh, but it does happen that way, sometimes. I met my last Ex one night, we talked for a few hours, little kissing, after our 1st real date we were going up the stairs to my apartment and I knew she was mine. It's so rare.
Onto me, the meeting is one of the most important things. There is that personality. We all have one.......thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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