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sex-less in lancaster :(  

AlphaWinterWolf 35F
276 posts
12/21/2010 12:27 pm

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sex-less in lancaster :(


and too loyal to cheat..... -sigh- any solutions?

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rm_JermsG 43M
607 posts
12/24/2010 1:27 pm

I agree with JRandom. I don't believe you love your husband, and he obviously doesn't care about you, or your hopes or desires.

You need to take care of you, and remove from your life anything which purposefully tries to drag you down. This includes your husband, and negative thoughts.

You are awesome. You need to be with someone who believes that. If you believe it, good; be by yourself. If you don't, find someone who does, and talk with them.

Lots of hugs.

This is me [blog JermsG].


rm_JRandomUser 60M
630 posts
12/21/2010 7:47 pm

I'm afraid I have no solutions for you.

From what you've shared with us, it seems as though your husband is lacking in ambition, and is content to remain as a leech on society. I rather doubt you share his point of view, yet you seem to have hung on to the idea that you need to lose yourself to be a supportive wife.

THAT IS NOT HOW MARRIAGE IS SUPPOSED TO BE.

A true marriage is one where each partner supports the other's goals and dreams. Find YOUR goals and reach for YOUR dreams. It seems that he is using guilt as a means of control and manipulation. You need to drop this loser, PRONTO.


Just some Random Thoughts from some Random Guy.

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