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Why some women attract only the creeps on AFF  

Joelusty 52M
5 posts
4/15/2010 2:21 pm

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11/10/2013 1:08 pm

Why some women attract only the creeps on AFF

There are many nice guys here on HotMatch.com and quiet a few creeps and weirdos. I have learned a little from the female point of view from my female friends here, and I have noticed a pattern with the women who complain about the creeps who contact them and that they doubt there are nice guys here.
The thing that they all had in common is a bad profile. by that I mean a profile where there are 2 lines or less in the "about me" section. very little to no words in the "my ideal person" section. and personal information (body type, smoke, drink, etc.) is not fully completed.
What does it have to do with the creeps you ask ?

Though you hold the power of the universe between your legs, and it is not a secret that because you have a vagina you can get as many penises as you wish whenever you want. it is also known that we men are vagina pigs. don't let these facts fool ya.
I am a pussy junkie myself, but I still have standards. believe it or not there are profiles that I skip or don't make contact with. if you didn't take the time to tell me a little about yourself, likes, dislikes, what your looking for and most important, what your not looking for. and if you have horrible, blurry, grainy photos that looks like it was shot in 1982. that is not appealing to me or any man with some intelligence and who is not insanely desperate. who makes contacts with these bad profiles ? the desperate creeps. the ones that don't care about anything besides the fact that you have a vagina.
Believe it or not there are weirdos in the female pool here. the intelligent man is trying to avoid those. if there isn't enough information about the chick, she is either hiding something (Weirdo, crack head, psycho, etc.) or she doesn't think anyone is worthy of her time and effort because she has a vagina.
Women, you are the most amazing, powerful, desirable and beautiful creatures on this planet. BUT, if you wont take the time to show us what you got "inside" you are left with the guys who want only the "outside". those are the dudes who cant hold a conversation before and after sex. the ones who don't care about their own appearance and hygiene.
Hey, even with a one night stand I still want to be able to have a conversation with her before and after sex, even if its a brief conversation, but I gotta know I'm not fucking a mentally challenged chick.

Bottom line, even though all of us here are not looking for the next love of our life, and we are free spirited sexual beings here, you get what you put in (your profile). if you see HotMatch.com as a place for sleaze balls, horny people that's exactly what you will find here. but if you are looking to meet new sexual, open minded, fun, loving friends. invest a little and make a good looking profile with lots of photos and text about yourself. you will only find that a well written profile will scare away the creeps and attract your match for a fun friendship with fun sex.

The reason why I wrote this and share it is because a couple of my female friends who complained about the creepy men who contacted them had a profile with very little information about them and bad or to few pictures. after taking my advise and invested a few minutes to tell about themselves, likes, dislikes, fetishes and what they are looking for. almost immediately after, they have noticed a huge difference by the men and couples who contacted them. not only that, but they became good friendships because they all have the same interests, hobbies, fetishes etc.

We men are all vagina pigs, but take my advise and start attracting the good pigs at least

Have fun my princesses. I love you all. be safe and fuck allot! its healthy!

Joe.


ArtemisJ 50F
8630 posts
5/1/2010 12:02 am

This is an awesome post, Joe. It's actually a basic formula - you get out of it what you put into it.
I don't talk to guys that have nothing in their profile unless they send me a detailed email. I made one execption - and he actually happen to be worth it.

Mind if I link this in my blog? I think as many people as possible should read this!

ArtemisJ is Keeping It Real


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