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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
29519 posts
6/28/2015 5:23 am
WHO ARE YOU?

This is my offering to the Ninth Virtual Sumposium on Body Image/Imagery organised by humorlife. To check out other symposium participants, please go to Participants List For The Ninth Virtual Symposium Body ImageImagery.





In a recent survey of British women, nine out of ten women cannot identify their own body shape. Many women believe they have the hourglass figure of Marilyn Monroe even though the straight up and down figure of Gwyneth Paltrow is by far the most common body shape for women.

The researchers identified three basic shapes of women’s bodies - the hourglass, rectangle and triangle. The survey found that 63 per cent of women have a rectangular shape of Kim Cattrall or Nicole Kidman; 28 per cent have an hourglass shape of Scarlett Johansson or Jessica Alba; and 9 per cent have a triangular shape of Renee Zellweger or Rihanna.

Body image is how we perceive and how we feel others perceive our bodies. Having a positive body image means that a person has a realistic, accepting and even approving perception of their body.

Unfortunately, most people don’t have a positive body image of themselves. Having a negative body image is widely associated with anxiety, depression, behavioural problems, eating disorders and sexual problems.

Generally research has found that younger people have a more negative body image than older people even though older bodies are in decline. Women have a more negative image than men. Gay men have a more negative body image than straight men, but lesbian women have a more positive body image than straight women.

Research has also found that exposure to repeated and continuous images of the so-called perfect body shape in the media, whether magazines, newspapers, films, television, advertisements, Internet or social media, leads to people to have more negative views of their bodies.

The media is very powerful in shaping dominant cultural stereotypes of the perfect body. Deborah Schooler, an American psychologist, said: "People see the same images over and over and start to believe it’s a version of reality. If those bodies are real and that’s possible, but you can’t attain it, how can you not feel bad about your own body?"

However, three other American psychologists have questioned the dominant power of the media in determining people’s attitudes towards their bodies. Christopher Ferguson, Benjamin Winegard and Bo Winegard argued that peer effects are much more likely to cause body dissatisfaction than media effects.

Beauty has always been idealised throughout history but a person’s perception of their body often falls well short of society’s aesthetic ideals.

Everyone says that it’s important to have a positive body image and that someone’s body does not define who they are. The advice is to accept and love your body; I peddle that advice too. Having a positive body image is a very attractive feature in a person. But it’s far easier said than done.

There are a lot of people who make a lot of money out of people feeling bad about their bodies.


What is your body shape?
How positive is your body image?


I am a rectangle! I think I have a relatively positive body image, though I wouldn’t want to flaunt my naked body to total strangers!

Below are two Miu Miu adverts. The first Miu Miu advert shows Hailee Seinfeld then aged 14. This advert was banned because people may be encouraged to imitate the model by walking on a railway track. The second Miu Miu advert shows Mia Goth then aged 21. This advert was banned because the model looked much younger.

Also below is Tess Holliday, a size 26 model. She has never been asked by Miu Miu to walk along a railway track or pose seductively on a bed.








veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
6/28/2015 5:33 am

What is your body shape?
Triangle

How positive is your body image?
most days my body image and self esteem is pretty good, but once in a while my body image is negative= which causes me to low self esteem and some distress. "I too fat, I'm getting older, I am not big enough (penis size), and I have too many silver hair!"

“Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh

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pal334 69M  
45821 posts
6/28/2015 5:48 am

What is your body shape? Maybe a triangular oval?

How positive is your body image? I feel positive. As the famous philosopher ,
Pop Eye the Sailorman said,,,,,,,, "I am what I am, that's all that I am"


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Gntillhom 68M
5906 posts
6/28/2015 6:00 am

1 - Rectangle
2 - As it is, I do have a positive image of my body today when it was poor younger. I'm like good wines, ageing well

I think the first advert was banned because of the subliminal message that everybody run on her except trains.


nightsoul1962 61F
17828 posts
6/28/2015 6:05 am

1. I'm the rounded shape
2. and I hate it!

WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
6/28/2015 8:14 am

What is your body shape? medium my legs are skinny
How positive is your body image? pear shaped. hugssss V

I think no matter what shape you are if your happy with yourself then your good to go!

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sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
6/28/2015 8:22 am

I'm a rather large pear shape.

I have never had a particularly happy view as far as my own body image goes....my feelings are not as bad as they once were but I could do with more acceptance.


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
6/28/2015 10:35 am

What is your body shape?
Somewhat deflated soccer ball. Think "Wilson" in "Castaway", buffeted by storms and overuse.

How positive is your body image?
That wasn't positive enough for you?

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GloryUnBound 53F
516 posts
6/28/2015 1:44 pm

I guess it depends on which angle you're viewing me from. Front-on, I look like a nice full, hourglass. Sideways, I'm a soft, round bundle. My body image, ha. Pretty much, shit. Still working on that.

Red lipstick and "fuck me" shoes. What more could you want?


kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
6/28/2015 6:44 pm

    Quoting kzoopair:
    What is your body shape?
    Somewhat deflated soccer ball. Think "Wilson" in "Castaway", buffeted by storms and overuse.

    How positive is your body image?
    That wasn't positive enough for you?
"That wasn't positive enough for you?" LMFAO

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
6/28/2015 6:47 pm

I'm a rectangle with a gut...and better looking legs (according to some)

I don't necessarily think I'm Adonis, but I'm no Jabba the Hut either

*******OR*******

I am extremely positive...between my nipples and my naughty bits

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
6/28/2015 7:55 pm

The closest image for me to pick out of your choices would be an oval


NaughtyInSO 113F
9755 posts
6/28/2015 8:34 pm

What is your body shape? Used to be perfect hourglass, now it's more round.

How positive is your body image? I have my moments.

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KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
6/28/2015 10:22 pm

I guess I am a triangle shape and that my sense of body image is for the most part healthy. But I have my good days and my bad days.
But for the most part, I just love my body because it gives me so much pleasure these days.
Good post,
Kitkat

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canyaz 56F
17128 posts
6/29/2015 4:13 am

I have an hourglass figure with too much sand!
There are things I would like to change about my body. I would say I am 80% happy with it.

There is a difference between a good BJ and a bad BJ.
canyaz


Seraphim13 109M/53F
726 posts
6/29/2015 9:53 am

I am not very much into body shapes, but there are three geometric shapes I try to avoid:

Vicious circles ;
Love triangles and
Square people


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
6/30/2015 9:12 am

good post.I can't say exactly. you added some shapes I have never seen before. Luckily for me, my body is pretty much well proportioned. Whether I am smaller or larger, not one part in particular dominates. I am not counting the girls either. They were always a decent size, lol....................thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/4/2015 7:07 am

    Quoting veryfunnycple64:
    What is your body shape?
    Triangle

    How positive is your body image?
    most days my body image and self esteem is pretty good, but once in a while my body image is negative= which causes me to low self esteem and some distress. "I too fat, I'm getting older, I am not big enough (penis size), and I have too many silver hair!"
My body image sometimes takes a nosedive, usually after Xmas or on a beach!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/4/2015 7:08 am

    Quoting  :

I'd like the body of a tennis player; they are probably some of the best and fittest all-round sportspeople.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/4/2015 7:13 am

    Quoting pal334:
    What is your body shape? Maybe a triangular oval?

    How positive is your body image? I feel positive. As the famous philosopher ,
    Pop Eye the Sailorman said,,,,,,,, "I am what I am, that's all that I am"

Popeye always spoke a lot of sense!

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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/4/2015 7:17 am

    Quoting Gntillhom:
    1 - Rectangle
    2 - As it is, I do have a positive image of my body today when it was poor younger. I'm like good wines, ageing well

    I think the first advert was banned because of the subliminal message that everybody run on her except trains.
I think my body may be more of a Beaujolais Nouveau - best drunk soon after harvest!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 5:44 am

I hope you're having a great weekend with your son.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 5:45 am

    Quoting  :

I would say that you are a diamond!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 5:51 am

    Quoting joisygirl:
    Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring. Marilyn Monroe

    What is your body shape? It's, a, um, no, it's . . . no, um. . . I am in a class o f my own. "Come up sometime and see me"*, will ya? A discovery mission.
    *Mae West

    How positive is your body image? It's much better and I am a work in progress. However, I have had a major setback recently. I have no motivation at all to exercise and I am in a lot of pain all over, it hurts even to raise a glass of water. I don't know the reason for this decompensation but I hope this is not an annual event, last August was the lowest I've ever been, largely due to chronic pain. One of the other bloggers said her body is durable, I responded, I wish mine was more durable. xo
I thought your body shape was doll-shaped!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 5:52 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    What is your body shape? medium my legs are skinny
    How positive is your body image? pear shaped. hugssss V

    I think no matter what shape you are if your happy with yourself then your good to go!
It's far healthier - an easier - to be happy with one's body regardless of shape.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 5:53 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    I'm a rather large pear shape.

    I have never had a particularly happy view as far as my own body image goes....my feelings are not as bad as they once were but I could do with more acceptance.

I only reject my body after Xmas festivities!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 5:54 am

    Quoting  :

You can never have a too positive body image; the more positive, the better!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 5:55 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    What is your body shape?
    Somewhat deflated soccer ball. Think "Wilson" in "Castaway", buffeted by storms and overuse.

    How positive is your body image?
    That wasn't positive enough for you?

I love that sort of positive thinking!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 5:56 am

    Quoting  :

Home-grown legs are always the best!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 5:58 am

    Quoting  :

I hope HNW is cleansing away your insecurities; the problem with our bodies is that we're only given one body!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 5:59 am

    Quoting GloryUnBound:
    I guess it depends on which angle you're viewing me from. Front-on, I look like a nice full, hourglass. Sideways, I'm a soft, round bundle. My body image, ha. Pretty much, shit. Still working on that.
It sounds your body is well worth a tour around!
Thanks for stopping by.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 6:01 am

    Quoting kittyliquor519:
    I'm a rectangle with a gut...and better looking legs (according to some)

    I don't necessarily think I'm Adonis, but I'm no Jabba the Hut either

    *******OR*******

    I am extremely positive...between my nipples and my naughty bits
I thought Jabba the Hutt was quite cute looking!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 6:05 am

    Quoting lok4fun500:
    The closest image for me to pick out of your choices would be an oval
Oval is the perfect shape for an ice hockey netminding!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 6:07 am

    Quoting NaughtyInSO:
    What is your body shape? Used to be perfect hourglass, now it's more round.

    How positive is your body image? I have my moments.
My body image moments usually happen after Xmas or on a beach!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 6:15 am

    Quoting KItkat1415:
    I guess I am a triangle shape and that my sense of body image is for the most part healthy. But I have my good days and my bad days.
    But for the most part, I just love my body because it gives me so much pleasure these days.
    Good post,
    Kitkat
It's always good to love your body!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 6:16 am

    Quoting  :

An hourglass and inverted triangle are great shapes for a body!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 6:17 am

    Quoting canyaz:
    I have an hourglass figure with too much sand!
    There are things I would like to change about my body. I would say I am 80% happy with it.
80% happy is a very good score.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 6:18 am

    Quoting Seraphim13:
    I am not very much into body shapes, but there are three geometric shapes I try to avoid:

    Vicious circles ;
    Love triangles and
    Square people


They are three shapes definitely to avoid!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 6:19 am

    Quoting thegrlsnme:
    good post.I can't say exactly. you added some shapes I have never seen before. Luckily for me, my body is pretty much well proportioned. Whether I am smaller or larger, not one part in particular dominates. I am not counting the girls either. They were always a decent size, lol....................thegrls
Girls are always best a decent size!
Thanks for stopping by.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 6:20 am

    Quoting apollorising2021:
    What is your body shape?
    Rhomboid...
    How positive is your body image?
    I feel I have a healthy body image for my age!
Rhomboid is a great shape for a man.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 6:21 am

    Quoting  :

I still haven't shifted my winter layer even now at the peak of summer!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 6:25 am

    Quoting joisygirl:
    Why how very perceptible of you Hugh!
Hugh does try and perceive things as they are!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 10:04 am

    Quoting joisygirl:
    Durn, the error of my ways just struck me and I jumped on here to make a correction or a deletion, not quick enough for such a perceptive person as yourself. Hopefully my error was nearly imperceptible. Chalk it up to being out until nearly midnight and up until 1am. Forgive the blunder Hugh. I will write both perceptible and perceptive 500 times each, it was just a slip of the finger; I promise to never do it again.

    xo
If you do five Hail Marys by bedtime, I'll forgive you!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 11:31 pm

    Quoting joisygirl:
    If I told you it really was not a mistake at all, just another difference between American and British English, would you believe me? You're not buying it are you? You are buying it! Good! I know where you can buy a Joisy bridge for cheap. However, I cannot guarantee that the Governor Christie not close some of the lanes during rush hour.

    Are we playing Catholic school girl/priest AGAIN? I am really getting sore knees Hugh. I was hoping we'd play professor/student this time, next time, ok?
That American English excuse again!
Once you've done your Hail Marys we can then move to the classroom for instruction!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2015 11:34 pm

    Quoting oneyneedsmore:
    I'm part triangle part hourglass my boobs are B cups but my hips r medium but some might say there even just depends on who u ask!

    *Y*{=}(Y)

    I'm pretty but I'm defiantly not hot I am some what skinny cause I have good gene's from my dad, I do ZUMBA cause I like the energy boost / workout it gives me an I eat healthier cause I like the food
A triangular hourglass is a great body shape!
Thanks for stopping by.


humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
7/8/2015 7:40 am

I'd love to have seen the perception distribution figures for this study... the reality ones are very interesting...

It'll never happen, but I'd love to see restrictions on the use of underage models... not only do they project inappropriate body "ideals" for adults, but many of 'em often go through unfortunate chemical processes to attain their figures. This is "ideal"?

As for my own body shape... imagine a handblown glass beer stein made by an artisan who suffered a hiccuping fit in mid-blow. It may not be ideal, but it's worked for me so far...

Thank you for this contribution!

Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/8/2015 8:33 am

    Quoting humorlife:
    I'd love to have seen the perception distribution figures for this study... the reality ones are very interesting...

    It'll never happen, but I'd love to see restrictions on the use of underage models... not only do they project inappropriate body "ideals" for adults, but many of 'em often go through unfortunate chemical processes to attain their figures. This is "ideal"?

    As for my own body shape... imagine a handblown glass beer stein made by an artisan who suffered a hiccuping fit in mid-blow. It may not be ideal, but it's worked for me so far...

    Thank you for this contribution!
My body should look like a wine glass given the wine I drink!


Sexybooknerd2 33F
14 posts
7/12/2015 11:57 pm

Hourglass


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/13/2015 2:34 am

That's a great figure.
Thanks for stopping by.


rm_sexster466 55M
64 posts
7/15/2015 5:19 am

who's the curvy bbw redhead?


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/15/2015 7:39 am

The redhead is the American model, Tess Holliday.
Thanks for stopping by.


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