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Blogs > lickmelightly > Sugar and Spice

Who Finishes Last (not bedroom either)  

lickmelightly 42F
429 posts
4/29/2011 4:08 pm
Who Finishes Last (not bedroom either)

So the saying always goes "nice guys finish last" but you know what. Why is that statement generalized as "guys" I've had guys say woman don't want nice guys they want the bad boys, the assholes. Well, what the heck would I want another one of them for I've dealt with that for many years. I'm starting to wonder though where really does being nice get you? Being nice gets you told "hey, you're really nice, but______." I finally said to someone, yeah I'm so nice I'm such a little shit.
Then again people will say good things come to those who wait. Maybe if I come back in my next life as barbie it will work better.
Some people cant even seem to handle a simple conversation over the internet. Like it is to much.
But hey that is ok, I remind myself it's only their lose.
I'm not going to start mistreating people to get what I want, that will never be who I am.
Always be yourself
rm_edwood43 56M
Ask me for a photo
183 posts
4/29/2011 7:27 pm

 Be yourself, if others cant handle it, piss on em......quote EdWood never more
DA


lickmelightly 42F
411 posts
5/1/2011 6:06 pm

 Exactly, cause that is what my signature says below each of my posts. Always be yourself.
Always be yourself


a_normal_guy03 70M
30 posts
5/4/2011 4:44 am

 But, if being yourself isn't making you happy, why don't you try being someone else for a while? Just not Brittney or Paris, ok?


lickmelightly 42F
411 posts
5/5/2011 8:10 pm

 Being someone else or trying to be someone your not wont make you any happier. Cheeto man
Always be yourself


contigo1987 37M

5/17/2011 6:47 pm

 I've always been the nice guy, and I still I am despite being overlooked. I'm still nice, but without being a doormat. You have to look out for yourself and put your own needs first sometimes.


shaghappy56 67M

6/26/2011 2:50 pm

 I for one do not subscribe to those thoughts.
I might not be the best looking apple on the tree but,i`ll tell you what,my manners and my niceness have stood me in good stead.
And,i see no reason to change?.
I was brought up to believe that manners maketh the man and,nothing will shift that mindset.
It works very well for me,i can tell you that.
MUMMY,MUMMY,HOW FAR IS IT TO AUSTRALIA?.
JUST SHUT UP AND KEEP SWIMMING.


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