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Bi-Curious: Ladies/Men & Men attached to Bi-Curious Woman
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Bi-Curious: Ladies/Men & Men attached to Bi-Curious Woman I have just a few comments and questions on this subject. I find the subject very curious, interesting and this is due to my lack of knowledge and having no close male/female friends whom are bi-curious. I answered an email this weak from a straight male coupled to a bi-curious female. I get a great deal of emails from couples who are attached, married, etc, where the female is bi-curious or VERY bi-curious, and of course the male is straight. After explaining to the male that I was not interested, the reply I got back was, "Will you see me alone then?" I would say that 70 percent of the emails I receive are from straight "8" males, already attached to bi-curious females. They do not hide it and are always up front about it. Out of the 70 percent, 60 percent will have the same reply. "We play separately as well?" Now is this honestly true? The bi-curious female is okay with her straight eight man meeting a straight horny female (ALONE) and knowing they made love and that it was an extremely advanced, hot satisfying encounter? So I hope the females will answer this one honestly. So, having said that here are some comments and questions. First: If a woman even mentions the fact that she would love to spend some time with 2 men who are bi-curious to another male...or even be with 2 straight males....well you should hear what they say..usually something negative. What is up with that? Seems if this desire is okay one way it should be okay the other!! ? Why does the straight eight male look down on this, if they are involved in the very same activity? I am just a little confused. HOWEVER, it is always expected for the females to be acceptable to a male (bi or not) who to desire two (or more) women (bi or not), like this is the norm. I don't seem to hear any negativity then?? Does anyone care to comment? Second: I truly understand marriage and all that comes with it. So why does a straight eight strong, muscled up male become involved/attached/married with a bi-curious female? Before you blast me, I have nothing against bi-curious, whether female or male. As I mentioned above, just inquisitive. Of course I am wise enough to understand there is always a level of love involved. Does the female inform the male before or after the attachment? Does this allow the straight "eight" male more reign or notches in his belt...I mean, come on "A huge dream for all men" to be with other females sexually or does the male just view that action? Does the straight (eight) male allow the bi-curious female to be with another male or two as he watches??? Are some of the females just pressured in any way to act bi-curious to please her man? Just wondering. Again, please don't blast me, it is only a blog. I ask this due to the sort of emails I receive. It seems to always be the desire of 3 to be included: Consisting of Male Female Female. And to answer your questions ahead of time, no, I do not mind getting the emails from couples, although I think sometimes the females may not be aware of the emails and I am certainly not going to deny that the fantasy of watching a couple making love is not a HUGE turn on with me, because it is and will always be. |
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11/29/2010 9:05 am |
i guess it depends on the couples that you get. cause most of the couples i chat too are the guys. rarely is it the female in the couple chatting. and its the guy that wants to play alone. even though its a couple that says they play alone, usually thats refering to the guy...or in my opinion that is. and the guys get with the bi-females cause its who they're attracted to. you cant help that part. and plus having a bi-female is a turn on for a guy cause then it means the ultimate desire of getting to have a fmf. and guys are greedy, you dont see many offerings for a mfm on here. or at least i dont
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K&A- Thank you for your thoughtful and intelligent post. I see your point about how men are afraid to be seen as less masculine because they are bi-curious. I've encountered that with a lot of guys I've talked to. I think there are a lot of guys who ARE curious and it's a shame that they're unwilling to talk about this aspect of their sexuality openly. I happen to be one of the open minded women out there who think there's nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality and desires.
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5/20/2009 12:55 pm |
goddamn you are incredibly sexy lady!
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We agree with you on some of your observations about the perception that a female who want's to be with 2 men is looked at negatively, unless it's a "porno" movie! Then all of the guys are okay with it! When it comes down to somebody you actually are in a relationship with,it actually works both ways, where either the man, especially, or woman may feel that somebody else will do something better than they do, and worry that the partner may become more interested in the other participant than agreed, or begin to feel inadequate. It's the same reason that Michael Jackson and Prince never performed on the same stage! (okay, maybe that wasn't the best example, but you get the idea) As for whether the female is pressured by her man to try Bi, we've had that conversation quite a few times, and still do to this day, to make sure that we understand each others desires! That too, should work both ways, where if a male is Bi/ Bi-Curious, there should be a strong understanding, perhaps a little more than the woman being Bi. Most men are afraid of what his woman would think of him if he disclosed that he is Bi-Curious. What if she is gets "turned off", calls him "gay", or ends their relationship because of it? Those men will never admit it out loud, but may go on the D.L. Men are prideful creatures, and many time the actions of a man towards a woman gives the impression that his masculinity is never in question! And let's face it, there are women out there who question that without it even being about sex! Therefore, total & complete understanding (which is rare) and lots of dialog between both parties is the only fulfill each others fantasies, regardless if it's his (MFF) or hers (MFM)! Remember, it's not always "just about you"; Sometimes, it should be about the person you're with! K & A
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