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Your preference in meeting someone. BE HONEST!  

disguy9092 38M  
19 posts
8/27/2014 3:00 am
Your preference in meeting someone. BE HONEST!
Out of your experiences on here or soon to have, which way has been the best way you met someone off here. Think about what you want, the risk, getting to the point, and being discreet. Everyone has their own opinion.

I loved meeting for coffee: less risk, public, and if you clicked, you went to play right after.
Straight to their place
At the hotel room
Dinner / drinks first
Coffee then play
Parking lot then car sex
At your own place


extra1980 61M
301 posts
8/27/2014 4:07 pm

 I would rather meet them for a drink first and go from there


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
8/27/2014 8:51 pm

 Either meet in a public place for coffee, drinks, or dinner, if things work out, it's up to both parties then to decide what to do afterwards, either go their separate ways or make a night out of it.


disguy9092 38M  
129 posts
8/28/2014 9:22 am

 ive had lonely ladies invite me straight to there house / apartment lol.......


RandB4U 68M/56F
25 posts
8/28/2014 6:03 pm

 Prefer to meet in neutral territory. Due to location this usually means someone has had to travel. I feel less stressful for all if meet for a drink or coffee or food, anything in a public domain. After more chatting everyone knows whether we have clicked or not. If a click more than likely go from there do we wait and get together another time or go see what fun we can make. (again usually someone traveled so would like to play if things all click into place) If no click let them know things just didn't work out, in hopes they are mature and accept this. Hopefully all contact prior to the meet was honest and straight forward so that there is a less likely chance of things not working out, especially if traveling.
RandB4U use to be TheSDExplorers
TarnishedAngelSD


disguy9092 38M  
129 posts
8/29/2014 2:48 am

 true that, when i traveled far, its was 99.9% chance of playing that same day.


disguy9092 38M  
129 posts
8/29/2014 2:51 am

 ill be honest though, many of my first meets were at the hotel room. Usually because we has talked, flirted, exchanged pics for a few days.


Depeer3 63M
146 posts
8/29/2014 11:25 am

 dinner or drink first


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