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Zune518 63M
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3/24/2017 3:12 pm

 eople change over time. Experiences change people. The key is to respect the other person's right to change what they seek and want. An FWB relationship is tenuous at best.


discreetcpl6267 56F  
16 posts
3/24/2017 4:58 pm

 I had expressed to a fwb that I was interested in dating him. He said he was interested but soon after told me that he started dating a soccer mom bc she was more "mainstream"

I was crushed


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
3/24/2017 5:10 pm

 just take it slow


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
3/24/2017 6:50 pm

 Not exactly clear what you are saying.

Your friend [with the benefit of sex] has a life of their own. That means they could date, or they could get into a serious relationship, or they could get married.

That means any serious relationship or marriage, they might get into, will end the "Benefits" portion of your friendship with them.

A vanilla relationship? I don't know what that is. If your Fwb is not getting sex, it's not relationship, in fact, it's not even dating.

Just a good idea to have more than one Fwb.


prairiedogs73 59M/58F   
188 posts
3/24/2017 10:37 pm

 Interesting. Are you a real "friend" or not?
The friend side of you would be saying that's great, happy for you, the selfish side would be saying damn, ain't gonna get any more of that, lol.


wantaplay8 71M
5606 posts
3/25/2017 12:19 pm

 One FWB closes and another FWB opens.. that might take some time to find that new FWB but it will happen for you. I had to modify that quote a bit ...


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
3/25/2017 2:41 pm

 Alright, so you're saying the Fwb is in an open relationship, and how does that affect me, or you, in this case.

A couple of affects; no more free time, potential jealousy. So they might not be able to have sex with you due to other obligations. So that's why you should have more than one Fwb.

Typically once your Fwb is in a relationship, the other sex with the friend stops.

And their gf or bf [hopefully they were not so stupid as to get married] , may insist they stop playing with you. So the reason for at least two fwb's.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
3/25/2017 4:44 pm

 chatgal_awes2 replies on 3/25/2017 3:11 pm:
ooops open was not supposed to be there. I f ed up.

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Okay so he's in a monogamous relationship. Vanilla. Plain. Sensually dead after awhile.

He is no longer your FwB. Find another one. Check out the men you have "Friendzoned". Most of them are there anyway because they want to have sex with you.


missthee 58F  
4511 posts
4/3/2017 10:45 pm

 I have yet to find out. Eventually it's s going to happen and I am not sure how well I will be able to manage my response.
Early on in our friendship we stopped seeing each other for a few months. I tell myself I have "gone through the process" once already but the truth is now it will be different.


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