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Blogs > LustfulLady64 > Where do I begin...

I stand accused...  

LustfulLady64 60F  
1258 posts
6/26/2014 6:56 pm
I stand accused...
Twice this week I have been accused of causing drama and I am quite taken aback.
I have never thought myself to be one who starts drama. But apparently if I say something someone doesn't like, I am causing drama.

Here is the first situation.
A guy I had fucked on and off since Nov of last year and is on this site started a new profile while simultaneously deactivating his other. Now the two profiles had similar names so I thought something had happened. I sent him an email simply saying, "did you start a new profile?"
The next morning he sent me a text explaining that his girlfriend (must be new I didn't know of her). Started the new profile and don't let on we know each other. Oh boy! Just what I need.
So she responds, "Yes why do you ask?"
I email my response, "I saw your original profile on my matches then it was deactivated and saw the new one come up. Wasn't sure if it was you but the names looked familiar."
She responds with, "Which one?"
I respond, "Well you sound like a fake who cloned someone's profile."

He texts me the next morning asked what I meant by that email. I told him I meant exactly what I said. She said you started a new profile, asked why I asked. I told her before because of what happened.
Then he asks me not to start any more drama.

Did I start drama? I was covering his ass by not letting on we had met. But I was starting drama?

The next one just happened. I was talking to a couple and they asked for my number. I reluctantly gave them it and got a text this morning
Hey sexy, we're playing

I ignored it.

Then just a few minutes ago I get another text.

Hey sexy, what are you doing?

Nothing

We're playing.

That just set me off! So I sent a text saying, "I thought you wanted my number to get to know each other better. Not enhance your sex life by texting me.

His response: "What's with the drama?"

Me: Drama? I really don't care that you are having sex.
Goodbye

Him: You are on a SEX site.

Me: Yes I am but that doesn't mean I sext, cam, or cyber.
Goodbye

Him: I tired of your games. bye bye.

I blocked their number so I don't have to deal with any other nonsense.

But really, can someone please point out to me in either of those situations where I was causing drama?

Its people like this that make me want to delete my profile all together and tell this site to fuck off.

I AM NOT HERE to be involved with anyone's drama or bullshit!
I quit going to parties and meet and greets in Colorado for that exact reason.

Is there anyone on this site that understands that? Why the hell do I get all the assholes? Does anyone else experience this?
TXArmyWife 51F
1964 posts
6/26/2014 8:04 pm

 I don't see drama in either of those, except the drama the other people are starting!!
I need a really great kiss!!


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