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The beginning of the end starts here!!  

bettiebear 47F
351 posts
3/31/2016 7:34 am
The beginning of the end starts here!!


and that's that.......its that simple.......after giving my all, giving 150%, giving ever single ounce of my being he decided that was it..........

after 8 yrs and 5 months.... no real reason at all or should I say I wasn't given the reason.....,.its over, finished, done with..... it is no more.

I always said he would never keep hurting me and this was the 3rd time, and I always made it very clear when he walked away and returned last time that really would be the very last time......... and it is.........

it breaks my heart after 8 yrs plus of sharing everything, its so simple for him to cut me totally out of his life....... so it left me no choice...... if he no longer wants me, wants to know about me or my family and life, then I have no choice but to accept that turn around and walk away....... and just keep walking and the one thing I must not do....... under any circumstances is........NOT LOOK BACK.

for the last 3 weeks my life has been so very different without him in it..... with out him there all the time....... no phone calls........no texts............its almost empty, hollow to a degree it seems pointless............

I have just had to throw myself into everything else in my life....... because I have to accept my life now no longer contains him through his choice not mine, and the sooner I get my shit sorted and face that fact the sooner I will start to move my life on to its next chapter.

I always think that's the hardest part..... moving ur life from a fantastic chapter which ends through no fault of ur own and then knowing u have to move on to the next chapter, whether ur ready too or not.

oh well, shit happens I now just have to suck it up and get on with it...........

so here is to the next chapter in my life........ whatever that may be......................


Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.



lomileage5 68M
10248 posts
3/31/2016 8:01 am

when that happens,only thing to do is to hold your head up,keep busy and look forward to the better things that life will surely offer


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
3/31/2016 8:02 am


Not sure what happened, huggiebear, but life does go on!
It is nice to see you though.....I missed you at Christmas but figured you were doing OK.


nicelipss66 48F
24236 posts
3/31/2016 8:31 am

I hope things will clear for you, I know, it is hard when hat happens, but give it time. time helps. try to do things that you really enjoy doing it, also get busy with friends and family so you don't think about it.


djamesc45 54M
825 posts
3/31/2016 8:51 am

life does go on and time mends the pain......keep you chin up!


PyschoLoco 61M
1550 posts
3/31/2016 8:54 am

8 years is a long time so it's gonna take some time to get used to it. Give yourself that time and focus on other things. Staying busy is very good advice.

Standards are people too.....kinda


Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
3/31/2016 9:39 am

Sad to hear it but it must be done. Eight year relationship will be hard getting over it. Just don't look back and don't think about it. There is new life and paths coming at you.


Cum to my blog and respond. Have a great kissing fun time.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
3/31/2016 12:49 pm


It's good to hear from you again but I wish it was in better circumstances.


Someones_Dutchy 64M
2897 posts
3/31/2016 3:49 pm

Aah , sorry to read that sweetie, but i know you have so many other great things in your life to look forward to , focus on that bright future and i'm sure you will be fine

* great to see you back



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it's better to live and do the things today than to be sorry tomorrow


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
4/1/2016 2:47 pm

    Quoting xck2007:
    Chin up, young lady. It can only get better from here!!
Thanks, and that's what I am hoping for. xxx

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
4/1/2016 2:48 pm

    Quoting lomileage5:
    when that happens,only thing to do is to hold your head up,keep busy and look forward to the better things that life will surely offer
Thanks love, I am doing my best to stay strong and just keep moving forward. xxx

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
4/1/2016 2:50 pm

    Quoting lok4fun500:

    Not sure what happened, huggiebear, but life does go on!
    It is nice to see you though.....I missed you at Christmas but figured you were doing OK.
Hey there sweetheart, ur right life does go on and as I had no say in anything all I can do is try to keep moving forward. I'm sorry I missed u at Christmas, so much been going on, look forward to catching up soon. xxx

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
4/1/2016 2:51 pm

    Quoting  :

Aww that's very kind of u, it does hurt but I am trying to to dwell on the pain, I just keep trying to move forward. xxx

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
4/1/2016 2:52 pm

    Quoting nicelipss66:
    I hope things will clear for you, I know, it is hard when hat happens, but give it time. time helps. try to do things that you really enjoy doing it, also get busy with friends and family so you don't think about it.
My life is always very hectic and busy with family etc so I'm making the most of keeping busy and keeping my mind off things. xxx

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
4/1/2016 2:52 pm

    Quoting djamesc45:
    life does go on and time mends the pain......keep you chin up!
Life does go on and I have to keep going for the sake of my family, so chin up it is xxx

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
4/1/2016 2:54 pm

    Quoting PyschoLoco:
    8 years is a long time so it's gonna take some time to get used to it. Give yourself that time and focus on other things. Staying busy is very good advice.
* years is a very long time, its a big change but one I have to get used too, keeping busy does help..... I'm just a bit worried about when I do stop xxx

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
4/1/2016 2:54 pm

    Quoting Han54boat:
    Sad to hear it but it must be done. Eight year relationship will be hard getting over it. Just don't look back and don't think about it. There is new life and paths coming at you.
I cant look back, it hurts too much, I just have to keep moving and looking forward, I hope time will help. xxx

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
4/1/2016 2:56 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:

    It's good to hear from you again but I wish it was in better circumstances.
Hello my lovely its nice to see a few friendly faces still here and commenting on my blogs...... thought u night of all forgotten about me, its nice that u haven't xxx

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
4/1/2016 2:58 pm

    Quoting Someones_Dutchy:
    Aah , sorry to read that sweetie, but i know you have so many other great things in your life to look forward to , focus on that bright future and i'm sure you will be fine

    * great to see you back


hi ya my love, its ok its one of those things, shit happens I just have to deal with it now, I know I have a lot to look forward too, so onwards and upwards, its nice to know ur pleased to see me and of course its lovely to see u too. xxx

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


openagenda 108M
6275 posts
4/3/2016 10:40 am

My Darlin' Bettie.

Tis his loss; not yours.

You will always be in our hearts.

Hugs,

T

ps Thanks for peeking in.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
4/5/2016 12:30 am

    Quoting openagenda:
    My Darlin' Bettie.

    Tis his loss; not yours.

    You will always be in our hearts.

    Hugs,

    T

    ps Thanks for peeking in.
Hello my sweet at the moment it feels like I'm the only one who lost anything, I'm sure he has returned to his normal life already, makes me feel so good knowing that when I do pop up again u and a few others from the good old days r still here and still notice that I did a blog, nice feeling knowing I will always be in ur hearts big hugs sweetie xoxoxox
u know I love peeking

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
4/27/2016 7:23 am

    Quoting  :

Thank u my love xoxoxoxox

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


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