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Blogs > tresennui > Succumbing to Curiousity

Have your thoughts about this site changed since you first checked it out?  

tresennui 69F  
2841 posts
11/26/2016 9:05 am

Last Read:
11/14/2017 8:07 pm
Have your thoughts about this site changed since you first checked it out?
While continuing to ponder about the thoughts of others who are on A F F (and affiliate sites), I have more questions.

Some of us use this site as a dating site, others more as an alternative to other porn sites, and then there are those who use it for both as well as blogging, chatting, etc. Did you know that there was a social network here as well as "dating" profiles and porn when you first checked out this site?

I would appreciate comments as to how or if your use of the site changed since you first signed in. I happened about this site while trying to sign in to the Friend Finder site over 10 years ago and haven't left since. Not only did I find men for various types of relationships, but also other types of friendships, as I wrote in a blog post Unexpected Relationships on A F F.

More questions to come...considering my recent site activity, obviously I'm bored (damn ennui). Thinking, writing and responding to blogs is a way to occupy my time.
Yes
No

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui
strangelove57 55M
218 posts
5/9/2017 8:03 am

 I've on HotMatch.com and tranny connections for 8 yrs or so. In this time span I've had 3 one nightstands and a lot of no shows . at first it was all about getting laid now I get into the blogs, IM's and camming (along with hooking up)


tresennui replies on 5/9/2017 10:38 pm:
Seems alot of us started here to primarily hook up (and many if us did). We've now moved into a phase of mainly blogging and IM. Still hook up, but not the overall focus.

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
12/5/2016 9:45 am

 I only blog here from time to time.It was made very clear to me that men over 50 are obsolete on this site.It was a little disappointing at first but it was only until I started reading profiles that I realized meaningful means less!
Using more than all the road!


montecarlo37 45M
298 posts
12/5/2016 7:39 am

 yes surely.. a lot of things...


deepu140820072 35M
Ask me for a photo
45 posts
12/4/2016 8:47 am

 giving blowjobs. After a while my parents leave and without any foreplay we just start fucking like mad people going hardcore while her boyfriend is watching on Skype. We tried every possible position and the entire house is filled with her noise. Ahhhh ahhhhhhhh, don’t stop baby. Omg, your cock is hitting my stomach. Ahhhhhhhhhhh mmmmmmmmmmmm. Don’t do it so fast. And she slowly tells me I love you baby in my ear so that her boyfriend cannot hear it. We do it for atleast 5 times that night. Her boyfriend falls asleep after the third round as it was really late in UK by then and it was almost 3AM in India, yet we did not stop. After the sex Maria says,
Maria: it was freaking awesome.
ME: hell yeah. Thank you baby!
Maria: Can’t wait to get double penetrated by you and my boyfriend.
ME: What? You have taken it in your ass too?
Maria: Yeah. A few times and its really painful.
Me: Alright. When is he getting back?
Maria: next year.
Me: OK. I shall fuck your ass while we have a threesome.
Maria: No, my Boyfriend likes being in my ass, and besides I love to have you in my pussy.
Me: Aww


tangledup735 65M
Ask me for a photo
86 posts
11/29/2016 5:19 am

 Definitely "yes", especially since I've started to see this site as somewhere to interact with interesting people, without necessarily thinking that online connections are going to evolve into anything else.


ProfessorNaught 111M
Ask me for a photo
1406 posts
11/27/2016 9:55 pm

 My perspective hasn't changed one bit - even though the site technology has gone through many changes.

For men, its still Tuesday nickle beer night for ladies at a local bar. You've got toads, trolls and jackasses that prove the female stereotypical conclusions of men and women who can't find a tree in the forest.


dokkss33 54M
22 posts
11/27/2016 9:37 am

 I would have to say YES...

its still great to come and pass the time a fun distraction so to speak but the IM system seems hit or miss most days maybe has gotten worse over the last year


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
11/26/2016 7:23 pm

 I went with yes, cause as the longer I was on here, the more I found out about the site, a lot more to it than just looking at profiles.


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