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Virtual Symposium- Doors and Bridges In My Life!  

veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
9142 posts
8/23/2015 6:24 pm

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9/3/2015 4:03 am

Virtual Symposium- Doors and Bridges In My Life!



Doors and bridges are part of my day to day life. I walk many doors throughout my day and I drive over several every day to and from work. I never give them any thought normally. But, today I am pausing and perusing them.

I have had many doors closed and slammed in my face. Lost opportunities and possibilities at every turn and it seemed insurmountable. But, alas a new pathway was given to me…a window opened or a hidden pathway was open to me. I think when things are at their worst, if we keep our cool and our mind open, we are given new chances. Opportunity is what you make of it. Whining and crying over spilt milk does not get you anywhere, but with hard work and determination things are possible. Leaning on friends and family is the best curative for failure! Failed relationships or lost friendships are not the end of the world but a new beginning in making new friendships. I was laid off work and I did not give up hope. I found work in a month and I was thankful for this opportunity. I remember a closed door doesn’t mean it remains closed, but rather it has door knob you can turn to open it again! It made me a better person!

Crossing bridges is metaphor for change. We cross many bridges in our life. From grade school to junior high to high school, change was scary and hard, but we made each transition in our life with help of our family and friends. My relationships crossed many bridges. I have had many friends in my life for different periods of my life and locations. I have gained many and lost a few. I was in several relationships I thought was love, and it was but it was not meant to last. I was married and now divorced these last 13. I am in a one year and half relationship now, but I am not sure I am in love, but I do know I like being her company and we have lots of fun! I tell everyone I will not marry again, but I will cross that bridge in the future because who knows what the future holds? Transitioning with my life and my work has taken several forks in the road as well as crossing many bridges! I was in the military and I thought I was a career man, but I resigned. I was in the restaurant business as a general manager of fine dining establishment and I thought it was for the long haul, but I got married and had a - then the realization of working 70 hours a week was not feasible and conducive for family life, thus a new career path. Now, I am helping people in a professional capacity. Several career bridges later, here I am. I remember to never burn bridges because I might to cross back over the same bridge in the future.

Doors and bridges abound in my life daily and in my life metaphorically! No what if’s or could of’s can change where I am today. I am happy for my life decisions. Yes, I do have regrets, but I try not to let it ruin my day! How many doors and bridges have you crossed?

Please check this site Participants List For The Eleventh Virtual Symposium On Doors andor Bridges andor Gates to read other people's contribution!




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nightsoul1962 61F
17828 posts
8/23/2015 9:22 pm

More that I care to remember!
Great blog!!! Thank you for participating!!!

WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/24/2015 12:19 am

You have a great attitude towards change!


veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
8/24/2015 4:42 am

yes....I tried to incorporate doors and bridges in the photos! Thanks!

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
8/24/2015 4:43 am

    Quoting nightsoul1962:
    More that I care to remember!
    Great blog!!! Thank you for participating!!!
you are welcome! I think we all have many doors and bridges we need to cross!

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
8/24/2015 4:44 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    You have a great attitude towards change!
change is upon on us whether we are ready for it or not!

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
8/24/2015 4:45 am

    Quoting  :

thanks for stopping by, I appreciate it!

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
8/24/2015 4:45 am

    Quoting  :

you have a great attitude too....life is an adventure!

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Gntillhom 68M
5906 posts
8/24/2015 5:37 am

♪ How many doors must a man break through ... ? ♫


Annie_34 65T
5945 posts
8/24/2015 8:07 am

Tellement de portes se sont fermés après mon passage , et tellement de ponts j'ai traversé , heureusement la vie continue .
So many doors closed after my visite and so many bridges I crossed . Fortunalety , life continues

" Après moi le déluge " Louis XV.... "After me the deluge " Louis XV

Notre vie est un voyage-♦-Dans l'hiver et dans la nuit
Nous cherchons notre passage-♦-Dans le ciel où rien ne luit .

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MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
8/24/2015 10:02 am

Hi funny! Great post......you are a great guy and a good friend. Giving you a BIG hug and wishing you much happiness. Hugs, Voice


BeccaLuvs 61F
20895 posts
8/24/2015 1:12 pm

And you wrote another very good "Symposium" VF! So true that - when a door shuts another opens ..... The hope and anticipation, guess that's what it's all about? Mmm ...... hope we all get to be on that 'sexy' bridge! Me being a girl, can I request a naked guy though?!

..... And always 'hold onto all those sexy thoughts'!
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citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
8/24/2015 2:59 pm

I believe I still have many bridges to cross.


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
8/24/2015 3:58 pm

I like what you said here funny.. Excellent way of seeing it hugssssssss V We all experience open doors and have to pass through them and cross bridges too..

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
8/24/2015 6:16 pm

    Quoting Gntillhom:
    ♪ How many doors must a man break through ... ? ♫
I was thinking...."Like a bridge over troubled water, I will ease your mind."

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
8/24/2015 6:17 pm

    Quoting  :

those smaller bridges and doors are a bear to go through! The large ones are scary!

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
8/24/2015 6:18 pm

    Quoting Annie_34:
    Tellement de portes se sont fermés après mon passage , et tellement de ponts j'ai traversé , heureusement la vie continue .
    So many doors closed after my visite and so many bridges I crossed . Fortunalety , life continues

    " Après moi le déluge " Louis XV.... "After me the deluge " Louis XV
life continues...bridges and doorways abounds!

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
8/24/2015 6:19 pm

    Quoting MyInnerVoice:
    Hi funny! Great post......you are a great guy and a good friend. Giving you a BIG hug and wishing you much happiness. Hugs, Voice
Thanks Voice! You have crossed many bridges and opened many doors!

“Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
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8/24/2015 6:20 pm

    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    And you wrote another very good "Symposium" VF! So true that - when a door shuts another opens ..... The hope and anticipation, guess that's what it's all about? Mmm ...... hope we all get to be on that 'sexy' bridge! Me being a girl, can I request a naked guy though?!
I will make sure next time to put a male toll bridge keeper....naked!

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
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8/24/2015 6:20 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    I believe I still have many bridges to cross.
I have miles to go and many bridges to cross!

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
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8/24/2015 6:21 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    I like what you said here funny.. Excellent way of seeing it hugssssssss V We all experience open doors and have to pass through them and cross bridges too..
lol...you were in the Navy.....so who needs bridges when you have boat!

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
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8/25/2015 4:42 am

    Quoting  :

lol....I too will have grin on my face!

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
9/2/2015 7:07 am

Wow, one could do an entire symposium just based on what that first photo (room 6) might inspire... and then you've added some fine thoughts about bridges and doors -- and passages. Well done!

One request: Would you add a link to the master list of symposium participants? Doing so would help build the community by exposing your readers to other bloggers... and that, in great part, is what this exercise is all about...

Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic


veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
9/3/2015 4:01 am

    Quoting humorlife:
    Wow, one could do an entire symposium just based on what that first photo (room 6) might inspire... and then you've added some fine thoughts about bridges and doors -- and passages. Well done!

    One request: Would you add a link to the master list of symposium participants? Doing so would help build the community by exposing your readers to other bloggers... and that, in great part, is what this exercise is all about...
Thanks for the feedback! I will add the link to your blog post!

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